| As much as I would love to butt in and talk about it, I'm in no position to do that since I don't know who's right or wrong from the discussion. It could be biased, it might not, so I'm taking it safe and staying out of this.
However, I want to say one thing.
Emotional manipulation is very dangerous. It can be triggered ranging from happiness to anger; indignation to empathy. Don't get carried away because of such insignificant argument pertaining to simple provocations. Think rationally on the arguments, but that doesn't mean that you should always feel right about your perspective/position. It's difficult to think of perceptions out of oneself, because people normally think their view is the correct one, yet giving the reason why there are controversies in religion, politics, and morals.
Not that I'm saying that having no emotion is the best, but we should try to be less dramatic when there are troubles. Rather than becoming angered and making short-sighted decisions, staying calm and thinking of solutions is the much better option. Of course, this will be difficult, but we really need this kind of quality as we live in a shitty economics right now.
Now, I don't know if Nano is right or Saint is right. This doesn't matter. Both of you are in a condition where this will get nowhere if things keep up like this. I understand your reason of leaving the clan because of this kind of issues Nano, but there is no need to insult someone just because you think you're right. The fact that you have the ability to keep up with the argument is good enough to show who is better than other without saying provocative words.
Saint, as the owner of the server, I understand that giving up things that entertain you does feel sad. As the server owner, we all appreciate your support of this clan no matter what. However, there should be limits to messing around. We TRY clan indeed is a clan for entertainment, but there wouldn't be any entertainment if players overall don't enjoy it. I know you are mature from your words when talking seriously, I see no reasons to make fuss with this kind of argument when you have the words to talk things out with nano, who is also intelligent enough. I know you two had few conversations, but that doesn't mean that you can't keep continue with it. The one who is fed up and becomes emotional is the one who loses the fight/debate.
This is all I want to say. TRY members are so peaceful back then, it's really a shame to see that it's starting to fall out because of admin abuses and insignificant arguments. Now, the choices are yours Nano and Saint. I gave you my perspective that hopefully won't anger you or anything, but if you two want to talk it out (which I hope) then I'll definitely try to help out any way possible.
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